Parents who feed their children excessively are bad parents.
 Why should the child, under the influence or lack of parental control, become obese and risk physical and mental/ emotional health problems?
When I see an obese kid. I blame the parents. Not the kid.

I dont want to become obese myself and I certainly will NOT allow my kid to be obese. Unless like for some innate medical reasons they have to become fat. Like some side effect of medication...

I'm saying this coz I'm stuck in between a fat parent and get fat kid. Very unattractive.