I have no idea what's with the guys. Ben seemed to have taken this a lil too far. Over the top, I see. Hey hey, cool it. We didn't make that statement. At least not I. Whoever that did so didn't actually mean it. That, I can assure. =)
Everybody's God's wonderful creation. Who are we to despise others?

I mean.. This is complicated. I know so-and-so likes to put words into our mouths... no offense.. But jumping into conclusions without having known the actual facts is definitely a No-No. This might in turn sow discord amongst the people who are involved. That's a sin. For your information.

Backstabbing??? We're not backstabbing. We're just discussing! Discussing without her knowledge of what we're engaged in is NOT backstabbing. WE're trying to conjure up some "tactful speech" so that we may get our msg across WITHOUT anyone having to be as hurt as they would've been! That's not backstabbing. Our "speech" (however it may turn out to be) may turn out to be edifying or might (God forbid) cause hurt and ruckus amongst us. Absolutely dangerous. Red alert. That is why the discussion had been going on for so long. Got it???

It's rather hurtful to have read something like that. I wouldn't say that it's not ENTiRELY untrue. But then again. Don't we all act like that at times without even realizing it?
I hope I've not offended anyone by having posted this. WE treasure the friendship we've had. I thought we've had it all along.(don't look surprised). A lil rocky and over the edge right now. All tangly-wangly.

I'm sure if ppl get the facts right, all the way back at the beginning, none of those complications would've aroused.

Whatever the case... hmm... oh well.. im pretty much stumped.